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Concerns are increasing over the nation’s ability to afford Alzheimer’s care and support systems. Estimates say Alzheimer’s cases in the U.S. will likely triple to 13.8 million by 2050. Alzheimer’s patients will spend three times more on health care than patients with other types of illnesses. Many costs of Alzheimer’s care are not reimbursed.
5 Key Steps to Alzheimer’s End of Life Planning
End of life planning for individuals with Alzheimer’s or other dementias involves many important discussions and key steps that you should begin to consider as soon as your loved one receives the diagnosis. While it may seem more natural to take it one day at a time and avoid thinking about the inevitable challenges that progressive, fatal diseases like Alzheimer’s and other dementias bring, planning ahead can spare you a lot of guilt, stress and heartache in the end. Follow these five key steps so you can honor the wishes and memories of your loved one in the way he or she would want you to.
Discussing your loved one’s wishes ahead of time can also help prevent conflict among family members when it comes time to make decisions on your loved one’s behalf. Instead of arguing about what you think Mom or Dad would have wanted, you’ll be able to eliminate the guesswork and honor your loved one’s wishes in confidence.
Living Will – A set of written instructions specifying preferences about the types of life-prolonging medical treatments a person does or does not want to have. According to the Alzheimer’s Association Ethics Advisory Committee, there is little, if any, benefit to treatments that attempt to extend the life of someone in late-stage Alzheimer’s. The most advisable treatments are those that make the individual as comfortable and pain free as possible. If your loved one with dementia wishes to follow that advice or specify any other preferences, he or she will have to document those wishes in a living will in order for family members and doctors to honor them.
Health Care Power of Attorney – A legal document that appoints a trusted individual to make decisions for your loved one with regard to medical care, and it becomes effective when the person with dementia can no longer communicated effectively or coherently with others. Learn more about appointing a health care power of attorney and what medical wishes they cover.
Taking care of yourself is also key to managing emotional stress. Make it a priority to get enough sleep, exercise, eat right, and set aside time to do something you enjoy that can take your mind off the source of your frustration or grief.
While facing the end of a beloved family member’s life will never be easy, you can feel better prepared and more in control of the circumstances by planning ahead for the emotional, physical, financial, legal and logistical challenges you may face as your loved one heads into the final stages of Alzheimer’s or other dementias. When you’re prepared, you’ll be able to better focus on positive memories of your loved one and cherish each moment you have together.